TOXIC RELATIONSHIPS IN CAMPUS

younggenerator.blogspot.comTOXIC RELATIONSHIPS AMONG UNIVERSITY STUDENTS.

Hello people,

Love has lost it's meaning and has become the play of each day in social media platforms.Have you ever asked yourself why this happens?. what should you consider before you get into a relationship most of the people when getting into a relationship they are only noticing the fully feelings they experience since it's all about romance, traveling, special treatments and too much understanding this makes one to feel that everything is perfect.

As time goes on the rose coloured glasses are worn out you start noticing the flaws for lack of better words and behavioural changes therefore boundaries arises so that the partner knows that the behaviour won't be tolerated.

Like in the recent cases we have hard couples killing each other, students committing suicide in the name of love reason being one partner cheating to one another , these cases has become popular atleast in less than three months you hear same same cases arising among  university students  . sometimes this happens when the desires of one partner are not fulfilled ,pressurised by social media because they have seen some nice couples or celebrities enjoying their beautiful moments you find this young generation they also want to copy paste their way of lifestyle which is impossible since everyone is student depending on parents. probably what will happen is that a girl will out of that relationship and start looking for sponsors who will maybe be able to give out what she needs and definitely she will give in and when the other partner realizes he will end up maybe committing suicide or killing  her.

This young generation is  more worse since they have started dating at early age you find a girl of 16 to 20 years old dating a old man of his father's age what they term as sponsors it's so painful seeing that happening their future life is doomed but they don't care  because their personal desires are too much.

It's crucial for both people in a relationship to know that negative thoughts and feelings can be communicated safely without it threatening the entire future of the relationship because it's something which you can control.

I think what to do instead state your feelings and desires openly and make it clear that the other person is not necessarily responsible or obligated to those feelings but you'd love to have their support.If they love they'll always be able to offer that support.

THANK YOU.